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Sub Female (38) looking for Dominatrix Melbourne, Victoria, Australia

I'm a single sub lesbian seeking a female domme to learn bdsm from. While I've always loved bdsm and experienced it a little as a 'side dish' in commited relationships, right now I'm single and would like to experience is as a main course in a more casual relationship. Personality-wise I'm an illusive INFJ on Myers Briggs: Translation, I'm deep, perceptive, nurturing, and in love with life's wonders. ;) Physicality-wise I'm passionate about health, fitness, and vitality and it shows. I love the energy this gives me, and enjoying a body that is strong and capable. I'd like to get together over a hot beverage and discover if we're compatible!

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAustralian
BuildFit
Height5' 7" (170 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShort
Best featureSmile
Health ConditionNo problems
My attractiveness:Attractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchA confident woman who's open-minded, open-hearted, and understands that true power includes vulnerability and consideration.
Our first dateA safe public location, delicious healthy food, and a mutual sense of humour and exploration. ;)

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mistress
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Genital torture, Kidnapping, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Whipping

Sexual Activities

Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Anything that causes me 'real' emotional or physical pain, as opposed to pleasurable sensual pain. I have no desire to hurt myself or be hurt...I want to enjoy myself, and bring enjoyment to another. I care about my health.

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy locationAirplane, Moving car, Dark alley, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Wow that's a hard question. Let's go with characters from tv shows: Brittany or Santana from Glee.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Experimentation
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Belt

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Lingerie and stockings, Leather